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Has an AFFAIR ever occured
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Join others in relationship
healing. You, like many, have
been culturally conditioned to
relate through fear, creating
the majority of your pain. It
causes you to sometimes
participate in unhealthy
relationships.

Reacting from fear causes
you to approach others with
our hands crossed over your
heart. Responding from
love encourages you to
approach others with your
hands open. Which way
seems better to you?

Painful experiences, however,
offer one of the best mirrors
for discovering what needs
healing in you. Those
triggers, when viewed with
proper coaching, can be a
catalyst for moving beyond
relationship roadblocks that
have stopeed you. That
awareness can then serve as
a foundation for discovering
new things about you, leading
to developing new
relationship skills, and
discovering how to apply
these to real life situations.
Unhealthy relationship
parrterns can truly be
changed!

"Coach Berry has shown me how
to tune into myself! It is all right
here within me...finding the
truth...finding a real, meaningful,
and fulfilling life. She has
enabled me to push "fast
forward" in areas of my life that
on my own would have taken
years. Dotti's insight has helped
me know myself...good and
bad...but most of all REAL! Thank
you Dotti!"
--Jodi Smith

"I am blessed to have the
opportunity to be a student of
her philosophy and love."
--Ria Bordian

"My experience with Coach Berry
has changed my life. I have
shifted into a new sense of
freedom. Thank you Dotti for
pushing me to see my beautiful
self."
--Shelly Varner

"Being conscious in my life and of
my actions, asking for what I
want, getting what I ask for and
that I deserve are all the great
things that came into my life.
This has been my experience of
working with Dotti Berry."
--Cindy Buckingham

"I am fully responsible for
myself. No one else is. I am not
a victim of my story. My fears do
not control me. I am the only
person in the Universe who can
'fill my bucket.' I have the choice
to live life fully and to not allow
my past to dictate my future.
When I am conscious, all that I
require, desire and dream is
available to me. I am no longer
frightened of the journey of self-
discovery as I have my guide
and coach, Dotti Berry, to help
me see the path."
--Cindy Braunheim

Self Pleasuring for Women:

This workshop is for women who have difficulty achieving orgasm, better known as "orgasmic disorder," and/or those who have difficulty enjoying self pleasuring and masturbation due to cultural conditioning. (Understanding Human Sexuality; Janet Shibley Hyde and John D. DeLamater, page 508). The participants, who encompass the categories of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual and transsexual, have communicated that self pleasuring and/or masturbation has not been an acceptable sexual activity in their past due to their family conditioning. Although their experience with self pleasuring and/or masturbation is limited, each participant has expressed an interest in becoming more comfortable with exploring masturbation as a means of gaining insight into how her body responds.

In dealing with a sensitive topic such as self-pleasuring (including masturbation), it is necessary to understand that much of the common wisdom about self pleasuring is both negative and inaccurate. Dispelling myths and providing participants the opportunity to explore their own beliefs and level of comfort is the initial step toward creating a new awareness. Further, in order to shift from the "cognitive" awareness to the affective domain, it is necessary to understand the power of "rescripting" as a means of assisting the participant in speaking to themselves in a new and powerful way regarding their bodies and its response.

Goals

To explore and debunk the myths about self pleasuring.
To provide women with a safe group environment which allows them to become more comfortable with discussing their fears and anxieties regarding self pleasuring.
To learn to utilize masturbation as a means of exploration into gaining insight into their sexual response, and then taking this new understanding and applying it to opportunities of two-partner sexual activity, if so desired.
To discover various ways in which people self pleasure and under which various conditions people self pleasure.
To recognize the importance of healthy "sexual scripting" to increased sexual response.
To participate in the homework assignments so that opportunities for self pleasuring and learning about one's body and its responses can be explored, with the intent of providing the potential for orgasm